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The Holy Family Fathers and Brothers of the Youth (HFFBY) is an indigenous Nigerian Religious Congregation for men founded 11th February 2003, by Very Rev. Fr. Denis Mary Joseph Ononuju Obiaga CSSp (founder of the Holy Family Sisters of the Needy). It is located in the Catholic Diocese of Nnewi with Most Rev. Dr. Hilary P. O. Okeke as the Principal Bishop.

One of the most demanding tasks of life of a religious is to be a founder. This is in line with the very words of the Father Founder himself in one of his addresses to his seminarians. He said that “the price of founding a genuine Religious Institute is one’s life blood.” The love of God and getting everybody to love God is his greatest desire that gave rise to his motto at ordination: “O God, you are my God, for you I long; for you my soul is thirsting” (Psalm 62:1).

Apart from other missions and pastoral works in the Church, our Apostolate is basically Youths Apostolate. In this Apostolate, we help in the rehabilitation of vulnerable youths who have taken to crimes, drugs and alcohol, and other delinquent practices through counseling, psychotherapies and medical/psychiatric services as the case may be. Since poverty, idleness and joblessness are some causes of these, the Institute intends to establish Skill Acquisition and Social Centers to train and equally offer jobs and employments to the youth. To inculcate in them the dignity of human labour as an honest means of sustenance, we intend to engage them in agricultural practices – poultry farming, piggery, fish farms, cash crop farming, etc.
To catch these youth young before they are exposed to dangers, our Congregation intend to establish Primary Schools, Secondary Schools and Tertiary Institutions where moral values and qualitative education would be offered to them.

After approval from the Principal Bishop on the 6th of September, 2002, the Father Founder wasted no time in creating awareness of the young foundation by gathering interested young boys with zealous love for God and His work. The Institute had its first interview on 25th November, 2002 at Saint Anthony of Padua Catholic Parish Umuohi, Okija. Over 50 candidates were there for the interview. At the end however, only 15 were successful in the interview. The successful candidates reported to begin their religious and priestly formation on the 11th of February, 2003, the feast of our Lady of Lourdes, at the family compound of our Father Founder in Umuohi Okija.

Later, they were conveyed to the house of Sir and Lady C. C. Ifebuzor KSJ (late). They graciously offered the Seminary a place in their compound to start, since the young foundation has not gotten a place of its own formation residence. The foundation lived in that house for approximately two years. The first and second sets of the Institute did their Postulate in that same place with the Father Founder who started with the first set, while Fr. Romanus Ochemba, CSSp came in the second year. In 2005, the Institute relocated to their own house of formation at the then Christ the King Station Ubahu, Okija. It was there that the first set began their Novitiate program in 2005 with the Father Founder as the Novice Director.

The Institute had the first religious profession in June 21, 2006 with six candidates. After Fr. Romanus Ochemba left in 2010, we had another Postulant Formator in the person of Rev. Fr. Clement Attah, V. C., Who actually stayed for five years and left in 2015.

THE PRESENT

The Institute at the moment has over 60 finally professed members including Priests and Deacons, as well as Seminarians at different levels of Formation.

Currently, our Priests are working in many parts of the world. We are currently in Nnewi, Bomadi, Aguleri, Onitsha and Abakaliki Dioceses in Nigeria. Our priests live and walk also in Sierra Leone, United Kingdom, Italy and United States.

How good it seems that a journey that started some 15 years back is in such a progressive stage. Indeed, God is at work here!

We Are Non Profit Organization

The apostolate of the Institute is for the youth and the personnel for the youth will be Priests and Brothers. Helping the youths to discover the true meaning of life and its positive values; to abstain from ill related behaviours and to re-discover the sense of sacred and sanctity of life.

Our Apostolate draws its source from the missionary mandate of Christ to His Apostles “go therefore make disciples of all nations” (Cf. 28:19-20); “let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of Heaven belongs to such as these” (Cf. Mathew 19:14). We pray that by the intercession on our Mother Mary and all the Angels and Saints of God, aided by the Grace of the Divine Trinity, this Apostolate for the Youth may be actualized through Christ our Lord, Amen.

Our Spirituality

The Spirituality of HFFBY is “Perfection and Fullness of Love”. It is a kind of love of Jesus to His Father – Child-like love.

This spirituality was derived from the spirit of St. Theresa of the child Jesus (one of our Patron Saints) who took “love of God” as her vocation. She loved everybody and executed her responsibilities (no matter how little) with the sense of Perfection of heart for the sake of her love, Jesus Christ. She loved God even in every little work.

On this backdrop, members live their Religious life/Community life, carry out their Mission and Youth Apostolate and other responsibilities with every sense of perfect love, for the sake of Christ. For the members, “Love is the bond of all Perfection”.

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